tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post4238984585561335395..comments2023-05-08T09:00:26.345-04:00Comments on Psychobabble!: "Should" I?Solitairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-70174582450938949112007-06-28T15:29:00.000-04:002007-06-28T15:29:00.000-04:00hey solitaire...that tunnabhai blog u wanted me to...hey solitaire...<BR/><BR/>that tunnabhai blog u wanted me to see..<BR/><BR/>what does that mean...<BR/><BR/>is it something u tryin to tell me..<BR/><BR/>is it that u r surrounded by really smart intelligent people who are kings n queens in their own respective fields and apply the same in personal life...makin u feel that why is someone acting as if i am a worm and he or she is the master...<BR/><BR/>i dunno if i am right...<BR/><BR/>r u stressed with this "i am the boss" thing..<BR/><BR/>everyone out to catch the other on the wrong foot..<BR/><BR/>tell me cos i like words in comments n not mysterious links..<BR/><BR/>P.S : is this blogger 'tunna bhai'<BR/> a great friend of urs..<BR/> someone u would hate to love <BR/> and love to hate..Dr Mandar Kubalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407454587768255170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-54089942188826570562007-06-28T14:06:00.000-04:002007-06-28T14:06:00.000-04:00jus came across this blog..n i mean no offense..ju...jus came across this blog..n i mean no offense..jus bein frank n sharin my thots..<BR/><BR/>kno wat..YOU think things SHOULD be that way...n they are not tht way for u..n so ur questionin urself..at the pretext of asking the whole wide world..<BR/><BR/>But ya..some of these are things are said over n over n.... and over a period of time..becomes a rule n SHOULD DO kind of stuff!Society starts thinking thats wat is expected of them (heard of the monkey n bananas in a room story?]<BR/><BR/>A gurl should marry by 27..for a whole bunch of biological reasons amongst many other reasons.<BR/> n if ur priorites n wants in Life are differet..thats not a SHOULD for u!<BR/> same story for the ideal job scenario...so its all upto 'your'/ 'the couple's' needs, wants and priorities in Life.<BR/><BR/>Anywez..if u don do the SHOULD stuff..ya a few ppl would complain...but why do u care...its Ur Life at the end of the Day!Pavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10798909986381885842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-34212274662210457842007-06-28T13:33:00.000-04:002007-06-28T13:33:00.000-04:00http://mstunnabhai.blogspot.com/You may wanna rea...http://mstunnabhai.blogspot.com/<BR/>You may wanna read this mr. devil.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-45498619374373208562007-06-28T09:31:00.001-04:002007-06-28T09:31:00.001-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Dr Mandar Kubalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407454587768255170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-88984243914675312972007-06-28T09:31:00.000-04:002007-06-28T09:31:00.000-04:00P:S saw ur profile on orkut. i aint the stalker...P:S saw ur profile on orkut.<BR/> i aint the stalker types..<BR/> so am not bargin in with scraps<BR/><BR/> if u like maybe only then the <BR/> devil will shift over to orkut<BR/><BR/> whats up with the ever changin <BR/> pics.<BR/><BR/> mirror of ur mindDr Mandar Kubalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407454587768255170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-36213561988242503702007-06-28T09:29:00.000-04:002007-06-28T09:29:00.000-04:00Miss Gujjuben aka Solitaire,Glad to see u blog ent...Miss Gujjuben aka Solitaire,<BR/><BR/>Glad to see u blog entries from the real world..<BR/><BR/>This seems to be a more level headed real time post than ur last few posts...<BR/><BR/>Is the real gujjuben standing up..<BR/><BR/>hmnnn...<BR/><BR/>marriage n the right time...<BR/>peer pressure...<BR/>insecurity...<BR/>gettin older...<BR/>waitin for the first fine wrinkles.<BR/>the right guy...<BR/>the right job...<BR/>am i too old for marriage...<BR/>what will me parents say...<BR/>was i wrong...<BR/>am i doin the right thing...<BR/>is he the right guy...<BR/>am i goin too fast...<BR/>am i forestalling my future..<BR/><BR/>CAN I GET THIS RIGHT....<BR/><BR/>how many facets of the holy alliance can u expect to get spot on positive for you...<BR/><BR/>when do u decide to triage out the possibilities...<BR/><BR/>hmnn...<BR/><BR/>my priorities..the Priory..<BR/><BR/>ur quest for the happiness u seek is like the holy grail..<BR/><BR/>i want good guy...<BR/>i want good friends..<BR/>i want good happy proud parents..<BR/>i want good career..<BR/>i want good job..<BR/>i want good money..<BR/>i want good house..<BR/>i want good peace of mind..<BR/>i want good pampering..<BR/><BR/>the root cause of "u should" seems to be "i want"<BR/><BR/>ask ur self..isnt what i said true.<BR/>it is for most...<BR/><BR/>u say ur surrounded by people who dont love u...<BR/>then can u survive without them..<BR/>can u shoo them away from ur life and say i am still happy..<BR/><BR/>if u can..then u rock gujjuben..<BR/><BR/>as far as the gujju baydis i have known they could not stand the isolation and the fact that they r being ignored in a group..<BR/><BR/>So ask urself..can u survive without ur close friends who suppossedly dont love u...<BR/><BR/>Emotions seem to be gettin the best of u these days...<BR/><BR/>i dunno the significance of the age 27 wrt u...<BR/><BR/>but as far as marriage is concerned and ur post is concerned..I WAS SHOCKED....<BR/><BR/>from ur profile n post u seemed to be a slightly different person than the rest of the gujju bens around the globe..<BR/><BR/>strong..independent..witty..foxy..<BR/>really smart..<BR/><BR/>this post makes u sound human..<BR/>and it kinda shatters ur super girl image..<BR/><BR/>THATS NOT GOOD .....<BR/><BR/>as far as the marraige issue is concerned ...<BR/><BR/>i think its just again a transient fluttering feelin that has been troubling ur mind presently ...<BR/><BR/>this phase is sure to pass out fast<BR/><BR/>this cant be forever..<BR/><BR/>please dont go on a defensive mode again in ur reply...<BR/><BR/>speak or better blast ur heart out.<BR/><BR/>its cool that <B>the devil</B> himself speaks to u ...Dr Mandar Kubalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407454587768255170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-76492366031324291012007-06-27T21:30:00.000-04:002007-06-27T21:30:00.000-04:00More than anything, what matters is 'How much does...More than anything, what matters is 'How much does one want it"<BR/>It really doesnt matter when one 'should' and 'has to'marry. Some meet their soulmates when they are 17 and some dont find the right person until 27!<BR/>Only thing that matters is that the person is right! everything else can be worked on..Thats just the way I feel!<BR/>Some of my friends have got married (guys) when they were 25, only coz their significant other was 25 too..and tha parental pressure from the girls side. So what should be done? Just coz the age is not right, does it mean one should let go of the right person?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com