tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post4350859032720469562..comments2023-05-08T09:00:26.345-04:00Comments on Psychobabble!: My Best FriendSolitairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-3885891939074766302008-01-24T14:49:00.000-05:002008-01-24T14:49:00.000-05:00I agree with u Sneha on being independent and not ...I agree with u Sneha on being independent and not having our self-esteem depend on others...<BR/><BR/>I just wish I knew how to get there. I manage this esteem-thing well most times!!!..but with the persons who matter most to u....Can't help but yearn for their love, appreciation and kudos!Pavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10798909986381885842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-1680452175306776362008-01-23T00:42:00.000-05:002008-01-23T00:42:00.000-05:00I can't cook!!! :((nice way of jotting down a very...I can't cook!!! :((<BR/>nice way of jotting down a very complicated theory!!Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06394200137631383145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-76772184630407213062008-01-22T00:42:00.000-05:002008-01-22T00:42:00.000-05:00beautifuL!!!beautifuL!!!divyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04560754888640079866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-22460834924505024042008-01-21T19:32:00.000-05:002008-01-21T19:32:00.000-05:00@ Pavi. I have met too many liars, hypocrites and ...@ Pavi. I have met too many liars, hypocrites and backbiters in recent times to believe people when they say that I look good or write well. I would rather get that recognition from people who have no ulterior motives to do so. And in the event that does not happen, we have to grow to be independent and treat ourselves to that! I do not think my self-esteem depends on others.<BR/><BR/>@ KPs zone, absolutely!!Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-35537610193726239972008-01-21T19:30:00.000-05:002008-01-21T19:30:00.000-05:00@ Lena. Yes! God helps those who help themselves!@...@ Lena. Yes! God helps those who help themselves!<BR/><BR/>@ Ceedy, yes. The day I am broke, I will hold you up to this and charge you fees. Till then, the service is free!<BR/><BR/>@ Anurag, yes! If you don't love yourself, you will not be able to love anyone else.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-43381544844667625432008-01-21T17:08:00.000-05:002008-01-21T17:08:00.000-05:00yep....well said....Its always....Me, Myself & Ian...yep....<BR/><BR/>well said....<BR/><BR/>Its always....<BR/><BR/>Me, Myself & I<BR/><BR/>and then the rest.........KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09923701352252200115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-41094904157977767052008-01-20T22:06:00.000-05:002008-01-20T22:06:00.000-05:00Celebratin "i" is sumthing we all WANT to do n WIS...Celebratin "i" is sumthing we all WANT to do n WISH to do...but never quite easy to do..<BR/><BR/>I think in most cases appreciation coming frm others matter far more than wat one thinks of oneself...Personally I feel happier..when sumone tells me..<BR/>-I love wat u've cooked<BR/>- U look gorgeous<BR/>- U write well<BR/><BR/>etc etc etc.....instead of me feeling it myself. <BR/><BR/>Honestly isn't this the truth for all of us?Pavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10798909986381885842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-37847124650355347952008-01-20T13:48:00.000-05:002008-01-20T13:48:00.000-05:00excellent blog i must sayi myself keep telling a f...excellent blog i must say<BR/><BR/>i myself keep telling a few imp people in my life...the most important person in this world for me is me myself :o)<BR/><BR/>take care<BR/>adiosAnuraghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17029271522271816151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-3475691130851289782008-01-20T10:22:00.000-05:002008-01-20T10:22:00.000-05:00hahahi dont as i feel changing ones true nature if...hahah<BR/><BR/>i dont as i feel changing ones true nature if already killing your soul - and then you live a life which is basically like a puppet <BR/><BR/>these are the reasons i am back to sailing the seas of life all alone again :).....but i know and as you rightly said "this shall pass too" :)<BR/><BR/>btw - thank you for all your posts - they do help as therapy, let me know doc - if i owe you any fees :) (a professional asking another :)ceedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17767787593275846653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-90663836597745785442008-01-20T07:58:00.000-05:002008-01-20T07:58:00.000-05:00thats so much true and positive :)If we dont love ...thats so much true and positive :)<BR/>If we dont love ourselves it is doubtful people would love you. We should start being content and happy with ourselves :)Lenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09787400183444796423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-85253305916368217302008-01-20T05:06:00.000-05:002008-01-20T05:06:00.000-05:00@ Nick, never?? I would say rarely or infrequently...@ Nick, never?? I would say rarely or infrequently. Once upon a time, I loved the way I looked!Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-10109035642903847812008-01-20T05:05:00.000-05:002008-01-20T05:05:00.000-05:00@ Hammett, you go do that. And let us know how it ...@ Hammett, you go do that. And let us know how it felt.<BR/><BR/>@ Preethi, in a world where not many stay with you through thick and thin, you have to be nice to yourself and keep that chin up. If you like yourself, I am sure you will enjoy your own company. If it feels temporary, come back and read the write-up again. :)<BR/><BR/>@ Mel, you are right! Too much of anything is bad. This write-up aims to remind people that in a world where insignificant people may pull you down, or important people may abandon you, you can always be your best friend and not feel lonely.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-168144043973631172008-01-20T05:01:00.000-05:002008-01-20T05:01:00.000-05:00@ Ceedy, dont you stop doing that no matter how ma...@ Ceedy, dont you stop doing that no matter how many people think you are crazy!! They wont take care of you. You have to take care of yourself!<BR/><BR/>@ Anjuli, :)<BR/><BR/>@ Cinderella, you are most welcome! Keep that chin up.<BR/><BR/>@ Ashu, never forget ME when THEY are putting you down. You are much more than what others may perceive you to be.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-51000681581448879692008-01-20T04:58:00.000-05:002008-01-20T04:58:00.000-05:00@ Jeevy, I truly am not computer savvy..:(@ Mez, I...@ Jeevy, I truly am not computer savvy..:(<BR/><BR/>@ Mez, I am doing well. And you? Will be online more from Monday onwards.<BR/><BR/>@ Vandita, Did you do something nice for yourself? I sure did!! And do so everyday!Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-30215177590901206692008-01-20T00:45:00.000-05:002008-01-20T00:45:00.000-05:00Human beings are never ever satisfied with how the...Human beings are never ever satisfied with how they look.Nick Phillips (15/03/1967 - 04/11/2022)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01043552434776358684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-72932275045595543782008-01-19T16:31:00.000-05:002008-01-19T16:31:00.000-05:00Hi Solitaire,How right you are that we should trea...Hi Solitaire,<BR/>How right you are that we should treat ourselves as our own best friend. Who else can understand us better than we ourselves. Let us just not overdo it for we may fall into the category of narcissism or vainglorious self adoration. And that is a far worse scenario than self recriminations. Thanks for the wonderful post. God bless you and your family. Have a great and fantastic day always.Mel Avila Alarillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00166954063114607598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-8177848772890559342008-01-19T11:40:00.000-05:002008-01-19T11:40:00.000-05:00Started with so many conflicting ideas here. I was...Started with so many conflicting ideas here. I was lost somewhere but loved the latter part of the post.... but then...after a while you tend to get weary of yourself too.... I know i'm being very negative here..... but the question is how much of urself can you take after a certain point of time? It is a kind of self-help stuff... but cannot last .... like everything else in this world, it is temporary ...Preethihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307439788003599987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-3227713337800596062008-01-19T08:35:00.000-05:002008-01-19T08:35:00.000-05:00That's so nice.. by the way, who wishes to be 2 in...That's so nice.. by the way, who wishes to be 2 inches shorter.. ;) hehe... I haven't done anything good lately, for my best friend I. I should cook something nice for I. Cheers!! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06614847231245451499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-16137748412007644692008-01-18T23:34:00.000-05:002008-01-18T23:34:00.000-05:00Hey that was a wonderful post. Me, me, me, me. Tha...Hey that was a wonderful post. Me, me, me, me. Thats a buzz word for me now. do all that pleases ME. do all that cherishes me. do all that gives an ego massage to me.....<BR/><BR/>Cheers,<BR/><BR/>AshuAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-15278840347784963702008-01-18T17:09:00.000-05:002008-01-18T17:09:00.000-05:00Sol....I love you for what you have doen by puttin...Sol....I love you for what you have doen by putting up this post here !<BR/><BR/>Yeah, we do need to celebrate the ' I ' at times.<BR/>At the moment, I want a spa- treatment or a facial maybe...lol !<BR/><BR/>I was telling a fren recently,why do we have to think that we screw up all the time, just because soemone isnt happy with us...? <BR/><BR/>You can please some people all the time, all people soem of the time, but you can never please all the people all the time.<BR/><BR/>We are here right ? Alive and human. Why cant we give ourselves some credit for that ? Credit for us, just being what we are...<BR/><BR/>Thnx for reinstating that confidence in me.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*Cinderellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02977943098333681922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-54921027224811381332008-01-18T13:31:00.000-05:002008-01-18T13:31:00.000-05:00u forgot my mango dolly and jhoola hai na.... :-Pu forgot my mango dolly and jhoola hai na.... :-PAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14848684021931332096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-57003809923450663582008-01-18T13:25:00.000-05:002008-01-18T13:25:00.000-05:00hehe,i do it all the time 'love myself'....but nev...hehe,<BR/>i do it all the time 'love myself'....but never felt like sharing it - cause people think i am crazy....<BR/><BR/>it reminds me of a very interesting few lines from the album marasim -<BR/>aayinaa dekh kar tasalli huyi<BR/>hamako is ghar me jaanataa hai koyi<BR/><BR/>thanks for sharing your tots :)ceedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17767787593275846653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-6938788986517652052008-01-18T09:48:00.000-05:002008-01-18T09:48:00.000-05:00just today i was feelin insignificant and then u i...just today i was feelin insignificant and then u i came along and read this and now im all pepped up<BR/>thanks so much sweetie :)<BR/>hugs!!!<BR/>PS: im gonna treat myself to icecream prolly, u buy urself a chocolate or icecream (whatever u like) from my side please :)IncorrigibleVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484955354089378277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-90426233054849387322008-01-18T06:20:00.000-05:002008-01-18T06:20:00.000-05:00That was so wonderfully put. Now i know how well u...That was so wonderfully put. Now i know how well ur profession suits you :) I have started loving myself more but not totally yet.Howz u doin after our last chat?Mezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13916802435996239841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8387806561280667418.post-87047906237410134812008-01-18T04:25:00.000-05:002008-01-18T04:25:00.000-05:00go to my archives and click on this month's archiv...go to my archives and click on this month's archive link!<BR/>and read the first post i made this year :)<BR/>U will see the awards!<BR/><BR/>-JeevyImpressionisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00732915252931492149noreply@blogger.com