So what do you think will Hum Tum V look like?
Do you think all the women will be unanimous or as confused as the men appeared to be?
How different do you think the men and women will emerge?
Do you think the women will fit the stereotype you have about women's demands?
Do you think Men are from Mars and Women from Venus?
Are Mars and Venus so different?
Check it out here.
Just My Thing
15 years ago
26 Words of Wisdom:
u na...tooo much! :-)
i think most of the women's comments will boil down to the same thing and wont be as contrasting as the men's thoughts!
this reminded me of a rather corny song.. "we are same-same, but different" lol!!
and i dunno abt mars or venus... but well, it's adequately tuff to manage earthlings!
now out with part V! :0)
hmmm, a tough question. but i still beleive the post will be similar to that of the men's post. anyone in the same bandwagon?
Millions of years' of genetic design of men and women arent gonna change just cos we live in the 21st Century.
Therefore I think, tho our needs and wants change with time, Men will still be Sexual creatures and Women will still be Emotional creatures.
:)
btw, check out my post on Mr.Right LOL!
Keshi.
I think most of the women would like their men to A) help in doing the dishes b) babysit while they attend kitty parties c) never stay late at office d) not to strike a conversation with any unknown dame d) take her on an exotic holiday at least once an year e) say that he loves her ad nauseam f) not to make a fuss when her mother comes for a fairly longish stay.
Well, as for Mars and Venus, both have 90% carbon dioxide and no wonder both men and women have fled these planets for the more comfortable mother earth. Why not just say " Men are earthy and Women are heavaenly"
i can tell u one thing men are definitely aliens!!
Men from Mars and Women from Venus.
What even if from Jupiter or Saturn?
Who cares about the past? They both are stuck on "Earth" NOW. Thus, there's nothing but to LIVE. And its HIGH TIME they stop commenting on other's native planet. Home-sickness ho jayegi.
Cmon, flip the coin soon, I wanna see 'how' you write.
It'll be similar...in the sense that everyone will want different things :)
Just before I write my Comment,
I'd like to ask Keshi:
What makes you think that evolution or genetic design has made Men "sexual" beings and Women "emotional" beings? Could you elaborate on this deduction that you've made?
About my expectations, I don't want to keep expectations. I believe that men are not so different from women that they can be termed as different beings.
There are many factors at play when it comes to social roles. But when we talk about homo sapiens as beings that have the ability to question, think and observe, there is no place for gender (or, for that matter, any kind of discrimination). And that is what matters.
I cannot believe that there can be any generalisations about behaviour stemming from gender.
haha after reading the prelude, im all waiting with bated breath for the post to be up :p
lol @vasanth
well.....m waiting for the part V now.....enuf of preludes....enuf of mars and venus similarities and dissimilarities....lets come back to EARTH now. :D
LIGHT, CAMERA, ACTION!!!!!!
Alok Meshram u asked me a qn:
**What makes you think that evolution or genetic design has made Men "sexual" beings and Women "emotional" beings? Could you elaborate on this deduction that you've made?
It's not a DEDUCTION that I've made...it's a known fact and just cos u didnt know abt it, it doesnt mean that Keshi made that up.
It's a scientific FACT. And it wasnt some Men-bashing comment eithert. Seems like u took it that way?
Generally Men think about sex every 7 seconds. If that aint genetic design, plz tell me what it is?
Whereas Women tend to be naturally emotional and have a better emotional memory. Its a proven theory.
For further details research on Men/Women genetic design. I cant take up Solitaire's space to give u a million references on it.
Keshi.
Keshi,
I didn't take the comment as male-bashing. I found your comment to be extremely stereotypical and generalised.
Are all men "Sexual" beings? Are all women "Emotional" beings?
I don't want to look up theories behind these things, because I know these statements are untrue.
well, buddies. don't start another hum-tum(this time in comments). but somewhere i feel, that women are being a bit harsh on men in this space. wht do ya say?
Relax guys!! Check out Hum Tum V and have a good laugh!
This isn't about gender issues, man.
I hate generalisations. Unless there is some logical theory behind them.
This is just a good discussion and nothing else. Please don't consider it as a "Hum Tum".
hmm... i still stand by my outlook.. we are all ppl!! only men are a lot simpler... and u pls check out my blog.. i scribbled after sometime :D
Hello Alok!
**Are all men "Sexual" beings? Are all women "Emotional" beings?
Did I say ALL? Dun use words that I didnt use.
Men are GENERALLY sexual (physical) beings and women are GENERALLY emptional beings.
If u find that to be UNTRUE, u must be living in some other planet. besides, I wasnt talking abt YOU, I was talking abt men in GENERAL.
Keshi.
When we talk abt Men and Women, there'll be alot of GENERALISATIONS. Unfortunately. If were to talk abt each Man and each Woman, we cant have just one blog post!
Keshi.
**emotional beings
Keshi,
"I wasnt talking abt YOU,"
Hahaha! Now what made you think that I was talking only about myself?
Yes, men are sexually aggressive beings, due to Testosterone. Yes, women are emotionally sensitive due to progesterone and estrogen. But is that the only characteristics that women or men possess? Do men always think sexually or women always think emotionally?
Does that mean men can't be emotional beings? Neither does it mean that women can't be sexual beings.
Your initial statement was presented in a form that implied that you weren't talking generally, but men as a whole and women as a whole. Please learn to express yourself properly, at least think before you write.
See, this is all for fun. But don't generalise where it isn't necessary. There is a lot to men and women than just sexuality or emotionality.
And one last thing about social roles: There is a theory in sociology that says that if a community is assigned a social role, the community slowly assumes that role. I wrote against your comment because it was something similar to statements like:
"Men should be workers, women should handle babies. Men should be aggressive, women should be emotional."
Now tell me, can't women work as efficiently? Can't men handle babies?
All these are social roles assigned to the sexes. Nothing else.
Alok tnxx!
**Yes, men are sexually aggressive beings, due to Testosterone. Yes, women are emotionally sensitive due to progesterone and estrogen.
HELLO thats exactly wut I meant by Genetic Design in my first comment!!
I didnt say that was their ONLY characteristic btw. U blew my first comment out of proportion and started attacking me for nothing? And now u agree with what I first said? HA! ok so Men must be delusional too LOL!
**Please learn to express yourself properly, at least think before you write.
I wonder why u found offense ONLY in my harmless and FACTUAL comment? Funny there were worse statements made by others but u picked ONLY my comment. Mebbe it bit u in the right place? :)
I still stand by what I said and NO I don't think I need to 'learn' how to express. Mebbe u should 'learn' how to read certain comments first w.o. jumping into conclusions? Besides, u should also learn how to TALK to a woman. U lack serious skill in that. And u chose a fine woman to throw ur wight ard with. Im not a bimbo ok.
tnxx anyways u hv a good day!
Keshi.
**weight ard
btw Im not gonna respond to u again Alok..only cos its no point. Clearly ur confused. :)
Keshi.
Keshi,
"Men will still be Sexual creatures and Women will still be Emotional creatures."
"Yes, men are sexually aggressive beings, due to Testosterone. Yes, women are emotionally sensitive due to progesterone and estrogen. But is that the only characteristics that women or men possess? Do men always think sexually or women always think emotionally?"
There is a Huge difference between these two statements.
Why I raised an issue to your comment was because I wanted to explore the truth.
This discussion has led me further towards the reality, it has facilitated my understanding of this world a tad bit better. Hence, I thank you for it.
I never intended my comments to attack you. I never took your comments personally either.
I am confused, yes. But not in the way you're thinking. Do you think I didn't get your comment fully?
I don't want to put up theories and generalisations until I have enough backing up behind it.
I want to explore the truth, to think, to find the reality. Hence this discussion.
no worries Alok and tnxx!
Keshi.
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